Why I Talk About Addiction: Offering Hope to Those Still Struggling

Addiction is a ruthless thief—it steals your identity, your choices, and your life. But here’s the truth: you can take it all back.

Let’s get one thing straight: I don’t talk about addiction because I want attention. I don’t bring it up to get a round of applause or a pat on the back. I talk about addiction because I lived it. I survived it. And there are people out there—right now—who are still drowning in it. If my words can throw them a damn lifeline, then I’ll keep talking. Every time.

Some people don’t get it. They think talking about addiction is like clinging to the past, like I’m somehow reveling in old wounds. Let me be clear: addiction isn’t a badge of honor. Recovery is. I don’t glorify the nights I blacked out, the mistakes I made, or the people I hurt along the way. Those memories don’t deserve to be put on a pedestal. What does deserve attention is the fight to get out. The war you have to wage against yourself, against your cravings, against every damn excuse you’ve ever made to keep using.

And that war? It’s brutal. It’s one step forward, three steps back. It’s waking up every day and choosing—not hoping, not wishing, but choosing—to keep going. Some days, you feel invincible. Other days, the weight of it all makes you want to crawl back into the hole you barely clawed your way out of. That’s why I share my story. Because people need to know that even on the days you feel like giving up, you don’t. You push through. You keep moving forward, one hard-earned step at a time.

I remember what it felt like to be trapped in addiction. It’s suffocating. It makes you feel like you’re the only one going through it and like nobody else could possibly understand the pull, the cravings, the way it rewires your brain to convince you that you need it. That’s the biggest lie addiction tells you—that you can’t live without it.

But you can.

I did.

And if I did, so can you.

That’s why I don’t stay quiet. Because there’s some guy out there sitting in the dark, bottle in hand, thinking this is just how life is now. There’s someone staring at a pill bottle, convincing themselves that one more won’t hurt. And there’s someone else who’s already tried to quit, only to relapse and now believes they’re beyond saving.

But here’s the truth: no one is beyond saving.

Addiction is a lying, manipulative bastard that wants you to believe you’re stuck. That you’re weak. That you’re always going to be “that person.” And yeah, you’ve probably done things you’re not proud of. We all have. But you are not your addiction. You are not the worst thing you’ve ever done. You are the person who decides what happens next.

Some people hear my story and say, “Man, I could never do what you did.” Bullshit. You absolutely could because there’s nothing special about me. I wasn’t born with some superhuman willpower. I wasn’t handed a miracle. I hit rock bottom, I made a choice, and then I fought like hell to never go back. That’s the difference. It’s not about being lucky or strong or different—it’s about making the choice to change and then doing the work. Every. Single. Day.

People love to ask me, “Was quitting hard?” No. It was excruciating. Do you think the withdrawals are bad? Try sitting alone with your thoughts when you don’t have a substance to drown them out anymore. Try facing everything you ran from all at once. That’s the real battle. That’s what makes most people go back—because facing yourself is harder than any physical withdrawal ever could be.

But you know what’s harder than quitting? Staying stuck. Waking up every day in the same cycle, making the same excuses, watching your life fall apart while you pretend you’re fine. That’s the real hell. Because addiction doesn’t just take from you—it erases you. It turns you into a version of yourself that you don’t even recognize anymore. And it happens so gradually that one day you wake up and realize you’re just a shell of who you used to be.

You don’t have to stay there.

And yeah, I know—some people don’t want to hear this. Some people will roll their eyes, call it “preachy,” or say I talk about it too much. Guess what? I don’t care. Because I’m not talking to them. I’m talking to the person who’s right on the edge, who needs to hear this right now before they make a decision they can’t take back.

If you’re that person, listen to me. You are not alone.

You might feel alone. Addiction wants you to feel that way because isolation makes it stronger. But there are people—people like me—who have been where you are and who know what it takes to climb out. And you can climb out.

But you have to want it. You have to want it more than you want the high. More than you want the temporary escape. More than you want to keep running.

You have to stop waiting for the perfect moment to get clean. There is no perfect moment. There’s just right now.

So what are you going to do with it?

Because the truth is, I can talk about addiction all day, but I can’t make you quit. No one can. That’s on you. And yeah, it’s going to be painful. It’s going to feel impossible some days. But it’s worth it. Because life on the other side? It’s real. And it’s worth fighting for.

I know you’re tired. I know you feel like you’ve messed up too many times to start over. But I’m telling you—you haven’t. You’re still here. And that means you still have a chance.

Take it.

And if you need to hear it again tomorrow, I’ll still be here. I’ll keep talking about addiction. Because if it reaches even one person who needs it, then every word has been worth it.

Stay disciplined. Stay Resilient. Live with PRIDE.

Jim Lunsford

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