“You may see me struggle, but you will never see me quit.”
Life’s a relentless storm, and you’ve got two choices: bend or break. Me? I’ve bent more times than I can count, but break? Nah. That’s not in my DNA. You might catch me stumbling, tripping over my own feet, faceplanting in the dirt, but quitting? That’s the one thing you’ll never see. It’s not because I’ve got some superhuman ability to avoid pain or hardship; it’s because somewhere deep inside, in the part of me that refuses to die, there’s a voice that screams: Keep going. That voice has gotten me through things most people wouldn’t even want to imagine.
Struggle isn’t a sign of weakness. That’s the first lie society wants you to believe. They tell you to hide it, to act like you’ve got your shit together 24/7 because showing cracks in the armor makes you vulnerable, makes you a target. Well, here’s the truth: we’re all struggling. Some of us just got better at hiding it. But me? I don’t care if you see the scars, the bruises, the blood. Let the struggle show because that’s where the real story is. That’s where the growth is. The struggle, the battle, the grit – that’s where you find out who the hell you really are.
Now, here’s the thing. It’s easy to romanticize struggle and talk about it like it’s this noble, heroic thing. But let me be real with you – it sucks. There’s nothing glamorous about waking up every morning wondering if you’re going to make it through the day. Struggle isn’t pretty. It’s messy. It’s uncomfortable. It makes you question everything you thought you knew about yourself. It pushes you to your limits and then keeps pushing just to see how far you can bend before you snap.
But here’s the secret: every time you don’t snap, every time you refuse to quit, you get stronger. You might not feel it right away. In fact, in the moment, it feels more like you’re getting weaker, like every punch life throws is draining you a little bit more. But resilience isn’t something that builds with ease. It builds in the fire, in the pressure, in the moments when you’re hanging on by a thread, and you still choose not to let go. That’s when you’re forged. That’s when you find out what you’re really made of.
You see me struggle, sure. I’ve struggled with addiction, with loss, with failure. I’ve fought battles that weren’t just uphill – they were damn near vertical. But here’s the kicker: I’m still standing. That’s not a testament to some kind of mystical inner strength I was born with. It’s a choice. Every single day, it’s a choice. I’ve been at rock bottom, and let me tell you, there’s nothing romantic about that either. Rock bottom smells like desperation and tastes like despair. But you know what? When you’re at the bottom, the only way to go is up.
And that’s where the not quitting part comes in. It’s easy to quit when you’re down. It’s tempting as hell. The world tells you that you’re beaten, that this is where the road ends. But they don’t know you. They don’t know the fire inside that just won’t go out. You’ve got a spark in you, even if it’s barely a flicker right now. And that flicker? That’s enough. You don’t need to be a wildfire all the time. Sometimes, all it takes is the decision not to quit, and that’s what keeps the flame alive.
People like to talk about success like it’s this straight line from point A to point B, but they leave out the middle part, the struggle. It’s messy in there. You’ve got doubt, you’ve got fear, you’ve got failure. Sometimes, it feels like you’re running a marathon, and someone keeps moving the finish line. But that’s the reality. The people who make it aren’t the ones who never struggled; they’re the ones who didn’t give up when the struggle got real.
And you know what? You’ve got to learn to wear those struggles like a badge of honor. They’re part of your story. They’re the chapters that nobody can skip over because those are the ones that matter. When I tell you I’ve been through hell and back, I’m not asking for your pity or your admiration. I’m just telling you the truth. You can see me struggle – I’ve got nothing to hide. But if you think for one second that I’m going to quit, you’ve got the wrong idea about who I am.
Quitting is easy. Anyone can quit. But resilience? That’s earned. And let me tell you, the road to earning it is long, brutal, and full of potholes. You’re going to lose people along the way. You’re going to lose things you thought you couldn’t live without. But guess what? You’ll live. You’ll keep going. You’ll find out that the things you thought would break you are the things that make you. They refine you. They sharpen you.
Sometimes, life throws you into situations where the only way out is through. And when you’re in that kind of storm, when the winds are so strong you feel like you’re about to be blown away, it’s not about winning. It’s about holding on. It’s about surviving. That’s where the magic happens. That’s where you discover that you’re stronger than you ever gave yourself credit for. And when you make it out the other side – bruised, scarred, but still standing – you’re not the same person who went in. You’re better.
So, yeah. You’ll see me struggle. I’m not invincible. I’m not immune to the same punches that everyone else takes. But you’ll never see me quit. Because every time life tries to take me down, I get back up. Every. Single. Time. Maybe not with grace. Maybe not without a few broken bones. But I get up. Because that’s what fighters do, that’s what survivors do. We struggle. We fall. We rise. Over and over again.
The struggle is real. It’s brutal. It’s unforgiving. But it’s also temporary. Quitting, on the other hand? That’s forever. And as long as there’s breath in my lungs, as long as there’s even the slightest chance that tomorrow could be better, you’ll never see me quit. I’ve got too much fight in me for that.
So bring it on.
Stay disciplined. Stay resilient.
Jim Lunsford
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