Ego as an Ally: Harnessing Confidence for Growth

Yesterday, I stepped into the familiar ground of the police department for a training day—a place where I also serve, albeit part-time. The air was thick with the anticipation of physical and mental drills, but it wasn’t long before the tone shifted. The guys started to reminisce about my previous life’s exploits, tales of my time spent in the trenches at another employer. As we went through the motions, they brought up the sound of my voice over the radio, cutting through the chaos of my adventures. They remembered instances where I was outnumbered but not outmatched, fighting to stay alive and coming out on top. They talked about my arrests, the dangers I faced, and the victories I secured. Yes, those were my adventures, thrilling at the time, but now, they’re chapters of a past I’ve pushed to the back of my mind to make room for the life I lead today.

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